For example, if I think I’m unlovable, then I may attract those that will act flaky, cancel dates, and not act caring towards me; further confirming my distorted view of self.
Weiss continues to establish that cheating is “far from a victimless act,” and how once one case of infidelity presents itself, a tumultuous downward spiral is imminent.
have found out from one of my boys, she would've been upfront with me, and told me herself.
The whole notion of hearing from somebody else, and moreover, her denying it – led me to believe that this probably wasn't the first or only time. I'll never know for sure, and that's cool, because if there's any emotion that pairs with cheating, as well as a glass of port does with some dark chocolate – it's that feeling of general bewilderment.
Looking primally, a man does not want his finite resources used to raise another man's child.
And a woman he can't trust when he is away is dangerous to his survival and status.